If you’ve been sad, hurt, stuck, out of place, distressed, and have no one to talk to? This blog is straight up yours to devour-
I know! I know! Who am I? What do I even know? About you? Your life? Your struggles? Your issues? I’ll tell ya, I know nothing about it. But what I do know is, I’ve been there. I’ve felt what you feel. And I can tell you one thing, it gets better. I promise. Not straight away, not in a week, or a month. But it definitely does get better.
When the going gets tough, the tough get tougher. No! For real.. It’s time to saddle up! You’ve been sad for long enough! It’s time to let go of all the fears and all the insecurities that hold you back! It’s about time you break free and embrace yourself, flaws and all. Because if you wont accept yourself, who will? And I’m talking complete and utter acceptance; because I can tell you for a fact: Once you’ve accepted yourself? Nobody, and I mean it nobody, can ever put you down again.
If your life’s falling apart, If nothing seems to go right, If everything you do seems to go wrong somehow... Just take a deep breath. Trust me, it helps. Worrying about things you can’t control only stresses you further and worsens the situation. Let it go. Let go of the things you can’t control and focus on the ones you can.
Focus on the positives. Always focus on the positives. Surround yourself with positive people, let go of the people that put you down. They only wanna feel good about themselves. People like that are the real losers. Not you. You’re amazing, you know that right? Just be happy. Focus on the things that make you happy.
And the most important of them all, Like yourself. I mean it. We’re often so critical of ourselves and our actions that we start hating ourselves. And it’s all downhill from there.
It’s important to love one self, and know thy worth.
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, there’s only one person that can ultimately help you, or save you.. and that’s YOU. Be friends with yourself. Because believe me when I say this, you’re the best ‘best friend’ you’ll ever find. You won’t just be there for yourself you’ll go through everything with yourself. Know your worth. And never let anything diminish that.
So don’t wait around for a saviour that might never come, become one. For yourself. Be your own hero!
After all, Your life is YOURS. To make it WHATEVER you want it to be. WHENEVER you want it to be. Just let yourself free.. and you’ll be surprised what you achieve!
Until next time,
-Batwoman. Xoxo (: